Living your best life comes from building a life that is yours. Focussing on your goals you have set for yourself and making them your priorities is the most important focus we should be putting our energy into. Is caring about what others think about you going to help you reach those goals ‘Nope’ it only distracts you and takes you away from your priorities and goals. It is easy to get caught up in the gossip and caring so much about what other people think, but are the thoughts of what other people have to say about you going to help you in live a happy life, probably not, So making the choice to care less about what people think of you and save you constantly stressing yourself out, has no value to you at all. So what if people talk about you, accept it and move on as there is no point in suffering about what goes on in the thoughts of another person, usually people who like to cause trouble for other people usually feel bad about themselves. So many people are suffering from depression and anxiety because of this, so if we can control our emotions and change our mindset we will endeavour to care less. Unfortunately in reality people would rather see us fail rather then succeed, this could be people close to us like family and friends so by not letting anyones thoughts or suggestions hold you back from your true potential, go out and prove them wrong, embrace it and learn to say no once in a while.